It is too cold to swim but she takes his hand. It is beach weather but it is still too cold to swim. She knows she is being brave at this point; Even her rage is poetic as she dreams the world, her world and the information in it blackening around her.

Everything is becoming more and more intense (she can feel it in a jarring physical sense in her cells), barbarian, savage as she clings to him, her life partner and most of all she also feels mindful of detaching herself in secret from him. She is waiting for him, never questioning or fussing. Waiting for him to join her where she is outstretched on her side, her side of the towel and she is smiling up at him.

'Here, let me dry your hair for your.'

In the car, he dropped her hair and before she could even blink back the tears he slapped her hard in the face.

Curls never smelled as sweet like this before. It's the sun. The sun pressed against her cheek. Her body is brown and tingling all over from the swim and the wind and her tears. He's an invincible work-in-progress. In the interim she's left to burn, to explode. The lines are there of her passion, her experiences into family life (cohabitation), intelligence and her value to this the most modern of society's. Her survival she thinks up to this point has been extraordinary.

'Hold still. Hold still. There's sand in your hair. '

'Pull yourself together right now or else I'm leaving you here.' She licks her lips and tastes blood. Has it stained her clothes, she wonders? Blood is hard to get out.

Dianne in the kitchen, out the door, walking, in the afternoon quiet laying down in the bedroom with the curtains drawn, frying steak or chops, watching the hiss of chips in the pan for his lunch (instead he comes home with pizza, a Weak smile on his face and he runs his hands up her arms, up and down her back until she feels light governing all her movements), watching the daylight until it is gone, listening to the forked tongues of laughter coming from the television. She feels all of it sliding through her as if she was a string on an instrument. It smells like rain so she gets up and stands in the draft, closing her eyes. The door is open. The security gate locked and bolted. Is it to keep her in or the madman out? She believes in him and who fault is that. Who's to blame? Has she gone mad?

Is he finally going to kill her? This scene has not lost its touch and the only thing that is going to take the edge off of things is if she starts to scream.

The next day the phone rings. It's her sister, the one from Port Elizabeth, the younger one, the outsider of the family. 'Is he ready to start a family yet?' Is usually what the hot topic of discussion is not why are you crying? What happened last night? Talk to me? Why do you let him do that to you? '

If she checks in the bathroom mirror, will he notice the turn of her head from the bed? She is drowning, Dianne is drowning but can he see?

The words coming out of her are, from the darkness of her tongue are broken links in a chain. There is no inner space, no room for forgetting the violence. When she is done with the out of town call, she plates two portions of breyani for herself, which the other sister, the eldest out of the four of them, the matriarch made for the entire family. When Dianne has had enough of feeling wretched, she sits on the couch and eats in front of the television before he comes home from work in the evening. He only comes home when it's dark out. God knows what he gets up to or with who, she imagines to herself. She has exiled herself from the hive of shouting, the flying fists, when he has her pinned to the floor under his weight, when she has blacked out.

'Have you gone insane? I've had enough. I'm going to leave you. '
'Have you really had enough, Dianne?'

'It's all a fog.' She told the magistrate. She knew he did not believe her but she said it again as if he had misinterpreted her the first time. 'It's all a fog.' The magistrate had seen this kind of case before. 'I can not remember. I do not know the exact date. I did not call anyone. No, I did not pick up the phone to call the police or a trustworthy family member which I could confide in. ' She did not add that she could not move because she was in so much pain and her jaw hurt and she thought he might have broken one of her fingers. She did not add that he; Her boyfriend had sent dishes with the leftovers of their half-eaten supper crashing to the floor. She remembered how dark his eyes turned at the table at the mention of his mother calling earlier that day when he was not at home.

'What did you say?'
'I said nothing. I just said that you would call her back as soon as you got home. '

For Dianne, she finds nothing to hurt her imagination, that illusion of all illusions without flaws that delights a child and even more so, a woman, a female poet waiting in the wings. So when she says those words, 'I believe in you' or 'I love you', she says it in part with fear, as if some harm will come to her if she does not say those words with meaning and a giddy, mad Dance of happiness, as if she is standing on the brink of a new world that beckons.) Her alienated family remains alienated, everything in her world that she can no longer cope with becomes more or less challenging to face. She begins to fear voyeurs, walking around with her life history inside their heads and then there's she, ever so willing to give it up at a moment's notice without any hesitation at all into her work.

'I did not touch you that time. There's not a mark on you. It's just shock and panic rushing through you. That's why you're trembling. I did not mean to scare you like that. '

Hours pass. 'What is wrong with me,' Dianne asked herself with the bedspread under her chin. It's afternoon and she is still in her robe. 'What has finally defeated me, all of that anger bottled up, fizzing inside of me? Was it the holocaust in childhood that exploded in my face like the freezing cold in winter, while I played in the dirt, played at 'being mother' or was it the Veteran inside of me's damage, rage and brutality, the poet's inside-out Abnormal sensitivity, the black dog of depression, that coveted prize of recovery that followed spells of mental illness that came with youth. ' She is tired of being brave, her suffering in silence and incline rage. There is no heady, formidable sky to reach out to her in her physical pain and offer her solace. She is not perfect.

They are not perfect people. He says, it was just an accident waiting to happen and that she is just a voice with no sensation of armour.

She is the firm catalyst and when he starts swinging wildly at her, he cuts her deep to the very heart of her until she feels she is nothing, not worthy of being spoken up for, just a heap that has bottomed out that once had the Potential to be buoyant. Cry baby standing her ground against brutality, a fragile bird caught in the fray of domestic violence, hair unkempt and one emotional cripple tied in chains to another; She finds her own blood enthralling. He wipes the floor with mummified her. She is stained by darkness that flows out of his fighting spirit to the point where her dreams meet reality; She is just a passenger. She only comes to life in silence, when she realizes what her situation is.

All she can do is shout out loud. If she quivers at the sound of his voice, he will leave her like that, watching her soul spill into the ether.

What does she need a social worker with a rapidly increasing in-tray of case studies for? It's not like they're considering marriage. These skirmishes are just skirmishes, intermittent but she can still blot them out. She drifts in and out of waves of real time, paralysed by periods of resting, imaginatively counting the seconds between the blows before finally falling asleep. She feels as if she belongs to a tribe of moon women. Everything about them delicate (suicidal) and if physical harm should come to them (if they walked into a door for instance) they would go to the moon hospital surrounded by caring nursing staff, head doctors who are experts in their field. He cares. He does. Why would he apologise, buy her expensive gifts?

She can not go out, not like this and she has told him this but he's not listening, does not give a damn or he's not paying attention. 'Use makeup. Hurry up. We're going to be late. '

There was still something inside her that wanted him to stay. She was afraid of leaving, what that kind of ultimatum would say to her sisters and brother. She would be set loose on the city as a single again. She was too old for that scene. Throughout all the uncertainties holding her back and the silent treatments she endured in front of the television, in the bedroom, from the bitterness choking her, that climbed into her, curled up inside of her, head spinning she ran water for a bath adding bath Oil under the hot water tap. She watched the water turn a constellation of milky white. She was a kept woman, the proverbial housewife with spiritual and physical tasks demanding her attention with nothing to fill up her time but to look after him and his needs.

Being emotionally dead was a serious condition. She needed to replenish the energy she was at a loss to explain how it got away from her. 'I can break you.'

She knew that her dependence on him had to be seen as an addiction, 'Dianne's' addiction. She slid into the hot water, a rag doll, her features out of focus in the mirror, far away from her conscious being. She closed her eyes as if to brace herself from a fall. To reach the green fields, the other side of the mountain, you had to climb hills. All of life is drama and drama is a painful way of learning, Dianne and you are slowly becoming a master at that. Even when he was not there in the house with her, she could hear him breathing down her neck, stalking her as if she was prey, carrion, talking to her as if she blind. It was too late for her to learn how to look after herself. She had to be joined to another soul to feel strangely creative. That was part of her generation's lifestyle.

'I can not be held responsible for your behavior, Dianne. You're behaving like a child, talking like one, acting like one. Does that make you feel brave, standing up to me? '

Tea, a private affair for her, always helped to put everything away, to shut the face of her depression up as far as humanly possible. In a time capsule it had more perspective. She could let go of the song of the wind in her hair and him trailing marks of black lines wherever he went and beneeth the highs of that surface laid alarm, still waters and the intertwined remains of a girl. She would leave the bag in a mug, pour boiling water over the teabag and leave it for a few minutes. For her 'going out, flying away' face she would stand in the bathroom curling her eyelashes making Hollywood-lashes, applying lipstick, rouge, scent and powder but for now she relaxed and opened the hot water tap again.

So she would continue to feel like a foreigner in their home (it was her home too, after all she was the one who kept the home fires burning), struggle against his fury even if it was futile. She packed away the empty bottles of wine where he would not find them and every evening she would compose herself before he came home. If she conceived, the child would be demanding but her splintered life would come full circle. The spiritual quest that had spread for most of her life in front of her would come to an end, normality would reign. But would that be enough? She remembered the day at the beach, waves crashing over her head, bluish sky, while inside she felt miserable, homeless while the commodity of the sun burned up, leaving her a luminous falling angel.

Source by A George

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